Ceremony Styles
"This is it—your moment. Breathe it in. Let time slow and the world gently fade. And now, here you are, ready to promise that whatever life brings, you will meet it together…”
This is my signature—and most-loved ceremony— for a reason.
Thoughtfully crafted and heartfully delivered, The Complete Connection brings together all the feels: it’s intimate, romantic, joyful, and utterly unforgettable.
At the heart of this ceremony is you—your story, your connection, and the energy you want to bring into your wedding day. I’ll weave your love story into a custom script that reflects your values, your personalities, and the tone that feels most true to you—whether that’s soulful and serene, lighthearted and fun, or a whole lot of everything!
There’s space for personalized vows, symbolic rituals, and meaningful touches that make every moment feel authentic and alive. The ceremony itself runs about 25–35 minutes—just the right length to include all the magic without feeling too long.
Designed to move you and delight your guests, this is the ceremony couples choose when they want something deeply meaningful, and utterly unforgettable.
The Complete Connection
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This isn’t just a ceremony—it’s an experience designed with heart, care, and complete support from the moment you say “yes” to the moment you say “I do.”
A fully personalized ceremony script that reflects your unique story, values, and vibe
A heartfelt telling of your love story, artfully woven into your ceremony
A private Wedding Workshop (planning session) to explore, dream, and design your perfect flow
Vow writing guidance, support, and inspiration if desired
Unlimited email support—I’m here for you every step of the way
Collaboration with your photographer, planner, and other vendors to ensure a seamless ceremony experience
My full presence on your wedding day—arriving early, grounded, and ready to hold the space
All legal paperwork handled and filed with care and efficiency
EXTRAS & KEEPSAKES: a little extra something for you - from me - to memorialize this special day. ❤️
Your ceremony deserves more than a template. You’ll have my personal attention, professional presence, and deep commitment to making this moment truly yours.
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Here’s how it flows:
First we connect
We set a our Meet + Greet—and get to know one another, explore your vision, and answer any questions.Choose your ceremony
Likely you’ll already know what you want, but I give you the time and space to decide.Let’s book it!
Once your $200 deposit is in - your date will be saved and booked!Love Story Form
I send you a thoughtful & provocative questionnaire to help me get to know your love story, your values, and the feel you want for your day. It’s one of the most meaningful steps in the process!Strategy Session
About 4–6 weeks out, we’ll meet for a Wedding Workshop where you’ll have my undivided attention and we walk through every element in detail —from your processional order, special rituals, family considerations, and more. It’s designed to leave you feeling grounded, clear, and confident. No surprises—just ease and joy.Your Ceremony Script
You’ll receive the script in advance so there are no surprises! You’ll have the opportunity to request edits, ask questions, and ensure that every word feels true to you.Rehearsal.
The day or so before we have an optional Rehearsal. This is extra ($125) but it is well worth it. You, and your wedding party, want to feel confident & ready to go. Coordinating multiple people runs so much smoother when everyone knows their role.Your Wedding Day
I arrive early, coordinate with your team, and hold the space with calm, grounded presence as you step into one of life’s most unforgettable moments.Voila! You are Married!
All legal paperwork is completed and filed promptly afterward—you can simply focus on what matters most: each other.
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The Complete Connection Package: $775
This includes your personalized ceremony, officiating, planning meeting, and all legalities. A $200 deposit holds your date, with the remainder due one month prior to your ceremony.Travel outside the Comox Valley is not included. $0.75 / km plus any ferry, accommodations if required or additional fees.
Rehearsal is $145.
5% tax not included.
The Simply Sensational
Where Simplicity Meets Significance.
The Simply Sensational Ceremony is perfect for couples who want a heartfelt, personalized ceremony in a concise, thoughtfully crafted format. While it doesn't include a custom Love Story, every ceremony is carefully written to reflect your unique relationship, your values, and the promises you're making as you begin this next chapter together.
Meaningful rituals such as handfasting, a ring warming, family blessings, or other symbolic elements can be beautifully woven into your ceremony, creating an experience that feels authentic, intentional, and unmistakably you.
Together, we'll create a ceremony that flows naturally from beginning to end—welcoming your guests, celebrating your commitment, exchanging heartfelt vows and rings, sharing those unforgettable "I do's," and culminating in the joyful moment you're officially pronounced married.
Because the most meaningful ceremonies aren't measured in minutes—they're measured in moments.
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What’s Included
Everything you need for a sweet, stress-free “I do,” lovingly wrapped in my calm guidance and professional care.
A beautifully streamlined ceremony script – lightly customized to reflect your personalities while keeping things simple and heartfelt
Choice of vows – pick from my curated favourites or weave in your own words (I’m happy to polish them if you’d like)
One focused planning call – a friendly 30-minute chat to walk through the flow, timing, and any special touches so you feel crystal-clear
Unlimited email support – ask questions, share ideas, and feel supported in the lead-up to your day
My full presence on your wedding day – I arrive early, liaise with your photographer & planner, and create a calm, joy-filled space for your ceremony
All legalities handled – signing, filing, and registering your marriage licence promptly and accurately
Keepsake ceremony script delivered to you after the wedding, so you can relive every word whenever you wish
Simple, heartfelt, and sensational—everything essential for a moment that feels perfectly you.
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Here’s how it flows:
First we connect
We set a our Meet + Greet—and get to know one another, explore your vision, and answer any questions.Choose your ceremony
Likely you’ll already know what you want, but I give you the time and space to decide.Let’s book it!
Once your $200 deposit is in - your date will be saved and booked!Planning Call
We’ll talk through the flow of the ceremony so it feels seamless and you feel confident. No surprises—just ease and joy.Your Ceremony Script
You’ll receive the script in advance (if desired). You’ll have the opportunity to request edits, ask questions, and ensure that the tone feels true to you.Rehearsal.
The day or so before we have an optional Rehearsal. This is extra ($125) but it is well worth it. You, and your wedding party, want to feel confident & ready to go. Coordinating multiple people runs so much smoother when everyone knows their role.Your Wedding Day
I arrive early, coordinate with your team, and hold the space with calm, grounded presence as you step into one of life’s most unforgettable moments.Voila! You are Married!
All legal paperwork is completed and filed promptly afterward—you can simply focus on what matters most: each other.
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The Simply Sensational Package: $475.
This includes the professional delivery of your ceremony, officiating, planning meeting, and all legalities.Travel outside the Comox Valley and Rehearsal is not included. $0.75 / km plus ferry costs, accommodations if needed or any additional expenses.
Rehearsal is $145.
5% tax not included.
Adventure Elopements & Mini-Monies
For couples who believe the best moments happen beyond the ordinary.
Whether you're exchanging vows on a windswept beach, beneath towering forest trees, atop a mountain, arriving by helicopter, or gathering with just a handful of your favourite people, this ceremony is designed to celebrate your love in a way that feels authentic, intimate, and unforgettable.
Each ceremony is thoughtfully crafted to reflect your unique relationship, with meaningful vows, personalized touches, and the option to include beautiful rituals that make the moment your own. Together, we'll create a ceremony that flows naturally from beginning to end—celebrating your commitment, exchanging rings, sharing your first kiss as newlyweds, and joyfully declaring you married.
Whether your adventure is epic or beautifully simple, the focus is always the same: creating a ceremony that feels genuine, connected, and deeply memorable.
Wherever your love takes you, I'll meet you there.
Perfect for just the two of you or a small gathering of your nearest and dearest.
Custom pricing available based on location, travel, and ceremony design.
As Simple as Possible
Just the paperwork, the legalities, and the precious moment to say “I do”. For couples who want no fuss. It’s simple, seamless and stress-free.
This will be just the two of you, your witnesses & me.
We state your Declaration of Intent.
You say “I do”.
You kiss.
And we get the paper work signed.
One & done. You're Married! And I’ll do the rest.
It’s short, sweet, and legally binding.
Investment $225
Optional Enhancements:
Add Pre or Post Ceremony Yoga, Intention Setting or Blessings (custom pricing)
Want to begin your day with grounding yoga or a pre-ceremony blessing? You can add that, too. This is your moment to create something sacred, cinematic, and completely yours. Add grounding extras like a pre-ceremony yoga session, breathwork, or a quiet blessing before you begin.
“Rev. Shelley made our wedding ceremony more beautiful than we could have ever imagined.”
— Shirley & Ryan Clarke